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once again i was thinking about how nice it would be to have someone to just sit with yu and keep yu company. a person that yu are with not bcos he's the wittiest person yu know or someone that yu have the most fun with or that he is the best listener yu can find. too many expectations come with these titles, and every time he's not up to standard, yu feel disappointed at his failure to live up to what yu believe him to be. moreover, all those qualities are replaceable, the moment yu find someone else who's funnier, or livelier, or conversely quieter or more down-to-earth. a special someone would be a person that yu find the most natural to be with, not bcos he has any particular traits or characteristics, but bcos being with him is the way it has always been. when there is no need for spoken words as they are but talismans to ward off the silence. when yu are comforted just by that person's presence and the recognition of the fact that yu are not alone.
and then a sudden revelation hit me. am i not giving the definition of family? people yu find most natural to be with bcos it has always been that way. people yu don't need to impress or to worry whether they will judge yu. strange then that these are the same people that we tend to be most cynical about. sometimes with the introduction of boy-girl relationships, family becomes underrated. how come we are so willing to forgive a boyfriend that treats yu like dirt but so quick to find fault with the people that yu have lived with your entire life? it's too easy to let a few mistakes negate a lifetime of care. your parents are the ones who jumped into the pool to fish yu out of the water the second your baby float overturned; who freaked out when your hand got stuck in the tape player; who hid outside the classroom of your nursery school not bcos yu couldn't cope being away from them, but bcos they had difficulty being away from yu. people say a child can never love his parents more than they love him- i believe it's true.
of course no family is perfect, and some even less than others. but we need to remember that it's easy to have feelings for people who display their affections for yu, either through frequent um confessions of their emotions or showering of material goods, which naturally makes us more receptive not just to boyfriends or girlfriends, but also the parents who others generally assume love their children more. it is much harder to generate feelings for the backstage crew, the people who ensure the smooth running of the show but are often less appreciated. a child may conclude his parents hate him when they banish him outside the house when he misbehaves, but he doesn't see their hearts breaking as they watch him scream and cry.
before yu judge me, try hard to love me-- childhood by michael jackson i don't see why that doesn't apply to family too.